So the question is do all relationships ultimately end up badly? And can some things ever be unsaid or undone? Or do you just have to walk away...and sometimes forever?
I think the movie, Cocktail, examined this in great length, well kinda. Wait...that movie was about a bartender! Never mind.
But i was reminded of this last night and i`ve been thinking about it this morning over coffee. And I realize that i`ve had quite a bit of relationships in my life and a lot of them have gone South, and luckily for me, i`ve been able to re-connect and become great friends with most of the girls i`ve ever dated. I mean hell, most of the girls that i`ve had serious relationships are my "friends" on Facebook...does that count?
Haha.
But no really, what i want to know is this...can things be unsaid or undone? Or is there a point or line that you can cross, where nothing will ever be the same and no, "I`m Sorry", can ever repair?
I think that`s the case. I think that sometimes no amount of love can fix some things. Perhaps later in life you can be friends, but if it`s too fresh, I don`t think it`s possible.
Thoughts?
I do think that time can heal all wounds.
Well....this is just what I was thinking about this morning. And now i`m listening to a band, Evangenitals, and a song called, "Time To Go". It`s pretty damn morose, but has some great lyrics and is starting to grown on me. My Producer recommended it to me to use in the movie, and i`m trying to form an opinion. Here`s the link, if you want to listen:
http://www.myspace.com/evangenitals
What do you think???? And if you`ve read my book, it would be the airport scene where Gavin watches Katka...
Back to the subject at hand. Why do we lash out at loved ones? Is it because of pain or jealousy...? I think that sometimes our egos get in the way, and take control and make us say things and do things that we ultimately really regret. I know i`ve been a victim of this. We all grew up with the saying, "Sticks and stones may break my bones, but words will never hurt me..."
Is that really true?
I`m going to have to disagree.
Words can hurt, and words can stay with you. As i asked earlier, i do think some things can never be unsaid...
Oh well...i`m going to write.
Talk soon.
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